This blog is about self-improvement not criticizing Black women's behaviour. It's about improving myself so that I become a better woman. It's about becoming the highest-quality woman, despite my upbringing or lineage, and attracting good, successful men of any race.
This is a great site! keep up the good work. When I was young I would get asked all the time "why are you so different"? Why are you so happy and smiling all the time? Why are you so quiet and not loud? By black women who thought it was cute to be rough, tough, and boisterous. I was always different and thin. I was also told I was too skinny, and my hair needed to be cutt. You would not believe how many crazy trifling black women there are out here. For example, look at an episode of Basketball Wives! The only respectable black woman on that show is Shaunie (Shaquille's ex wife).
Thank you :) Yes, I know what you mean about being thought to be unusual because you are not acting rude and crazy. We need to stop embracing attitude and causing drama as being "authentic blackness". We need to act like refined ladies and royalty (without the snobbery though).
This is a great site! keep up the good work. When I was young I would get asked all the time "why are you so different"? Why are you so happy and smiling all the time? Why are you so quiet and not loud? By black women who thought it was cute to be rough, tough, and boisterous. I was always different and thin. I was also told I was too skinny, and my hair needed to be cutt. You would not believe how many crazy trifling black women there are out here. For example, look at an episode of Basketball Wives! The only respectable black woman on that show is Shaunie (Shaquille's ex wife).
ReplyDeleteThank you :) Yes, I know what you mean about being thought to be unusual because you are not acting rude and crazy. We need to stop embracing attitude and causing drama as being "authentic blackness". We need to act like refined ladies and royalty (without the snobbery though).
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