tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post8712034411324015491..comments2024-01-29T01:52:28.701-05:00Comments on The New Elegant Black Woman: Walking the Walk of an EBWElegancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06086459974594918860noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-67391235771836357262013-07-29T05:05:54.301-04:002013-07-29T05:05:54.301-04:00i wholeheartedly agree. homemaker here. stay at ho...i wholeheartedly agree. homemaker here. stay at home mom here. also a college graduate with a 3.8 gpa ...from a prestigious university. to say my parents, friends, parent's friends, and the entire black "community" (lol) were disappointed is an understatement. i try my hand at sewing, i crochet, knit, bake, cook healthy meals, make my baby's food from scratch, love to clean and organize (decorating is not my forte, but i try. need to study up on this), wear dresses and skirts only...and the family whisper "is she retarded? is something wrong with her? she's lazy. want to lay up on that man. why not help that man out?" on and on and on. but i am not here to live their lives. and no one told them to live vicariously through me. i am even considering "renouncing my black card." seriously. i am so fed up. but, like anon said, i'd rather be called crazy than angry/stereotypical/ghettofab/powerful/strong black woman. i realized this at a VERY early age. btw, this is sarah,lovely wife of...but for some reason, i cannot log in.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-23305888133577007962012-08-04T01:17:44.258-04:002012-08-04T01:17:44.258-04:00P.S. You are not crazy you are one of the few blac...P.S. You are not crazy you are one of the few black women that actually gets it, besides, i'd much rather be called crazy than being called an angry black woman lol <br /><br />MariaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-47979190669907132532012-08-04T01:16:07.454-04:002012-08-04T01:16:07.454-04:00Ok great and yes i understand you need for anonymi...Ok great and yes i understand you need for anonymity. Will look out for more videos from you :)<br /><br />MariaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-17352868842727884222012-08-03T11:03:32.852-04:002012-08-03T11:03:32.852-04:00Hi Maria,
I really appreciate your visit and your...Hi Maria,<br /><br />I really appreciate your visit and your amazing comments. I'm glad that there are some women out there who don't think I'm crazy for wanting to develop my femininity. But unfortunately there are some people who totally disagree with me and hate what I am doing and writing. Because of this and my career I have to stay anonymous. I wouldn't want someone to find out my identity and make it known what I am doing online because employers do search for names online. Because of this I can't let anyone know my real name or friend me on Facebook. I'm sorry about that but I hope you can understand? But you can send me messages on YouTube though anytime. I found a free video editor so I'll be making more videos :)<br /><br />Sincerely,<br /><br />EleganceElegancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086459974594918860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-63663748041592652912012-08-03T10:33:30.615-04:002012-08-03T10:33:30.615-04:00I don't know if you ever read new comments on ...I don't know if you ever read new comments on older post but i would love to add you on facebook. I've subscribed to your youtube channel and i'm following your blog, but i would so love to talk to you and maybe get to know you as friends. I'm also following your blog by email, so it would be nice if you can email me :)<br /><br />mariaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-67941967989871421472011-11-16T17:03:50.199-05:002011-11-16T17:03:50.199-05:00Chizzy D that sounds like a great hobby and it'...Chizzy D that sounds like a great hobby and it's just a bonus that you can get paid for it :) Thanks for the idea OneGirlsDream...I should get a library card and start reading. I also have to do movie reviews on the subject. Thanks for visiting :)Elegancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086459974594918860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-5362945999096826412011-06-15T16:59:30.096-04:002011-06-15T16:59:30.096-04:00You could do a post on books about femininity.
Co...You could do a post on books about femininity.<br /><br />Congratulations Miss Chizzy D on the store!MoonBunny☾https://www.blogger.com/profile/13487537933824495638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-81342169888108042992011-06-02T00:40:38.802-04:002011-06-02T00:40:38.802-04:00I learned how to sew earlier this year and it has ...I learned how to sew earlier this year and it has been a blessing. <br />I am now making my own dresses and accessories. <br />i started an online store as well where people can ask me to make them a customize dress.Chizzy Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03547254278027122774noreply@blogger.com