tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post8534593723484312277..comments2024-01-29T01:52:28.701-05:00Comments on The New Elegant Black Woman: Should an Elegant Black Woman be a Pleaser or a Giver?Elegancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06086459974594918860noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-1950450815702549692013-05-19T16:12:01.671-04:002013-05-19T16:12:01.671-04:00excuse the errors in the previous post (swype), bu...excuse the errors in the previous post (swype), but I still think we should consider these things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-2131672128582599162013-05-19T16:09:31.192-04:002013-05-19T16:09:31.192-04:00I think these blogs are encouraging us to step bac...I think these blogs are encouraging us to step back into the 50's. don't you realize there's nothing wrong with embodying strength? that docile, meek, weak mess, is it going to encourage resilience, and inner strength-- we have dealt with more than any other woman in this country and still do, this is partly why it is ingrained in our culture to be strong and a bit and your face even needed--( yes we do have a culture, everything we do from affinity for elaborate hairstyles, to our inclination to love drum based rhythms, everything we do has the derivative,) and these things can be done without falling into the black matriarch stereotype, why can't we focus on how to be strong but not a neck rolling "black matriarch"? I appreciate that you were trying to give pointers, but turning into a 60s Stepford wife of color in 2013, is not the answer. if we follow some of the things that you are trying to push, wouldnt we just be culturally assimilating?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-47794476099046899142011-04-27T17:09:50.428-04:002011-04-27T17:09:50.428-04:00Lol Chizzy D, now the comment makes sense! Thanks ...Lol Chizzy D, now the comment makes sense! Thanks for the visit. Yes, it's good to be balanced in most things.Goldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09635386804709742950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-66118548112101898792011-04-27T16:57:52.794-04:002011-04-27T16:57:52.794-04:00sorry i meant the key
http://earthichick.etsy.com...sorry i meant the key<br /><br />http://earthichick.etsy.comChizzy Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03547254278027122774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-2806216104178993952011-04-27T16:57:16.236-04:002011-04-27T16:57:16.236-04:00I think the keep is balance.I think the keep is balance.Chizzy Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03547254278027122774noreply@blogger.com