tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post3057286214650870553..comments2024-01-29T01:52:28.701-05:00Comments on The New Elegant Black Woman: It is Time for the New Elegant Black WomanElegancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06086459974594918860noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-42588778999987491802012-07-31T14:09:39.147-04:002012-07-31T14:09:39.147-04:00Thank you so much for your visit Anonymous :) That...Thank you so much for your visit Anonymous :) That was an inspiring story. There are benefits to not hiding our femininity and it feels great to be protected and cared for by others :)Elegancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086459974594918860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-788247236906826630.post-38344896138720185932012-07-27T23:57:32.954-04:002012-07-27T23:57:32.954-04:00I am so happy I found your blog! I use to wonder w...I am so happy I found your blog! I use to wonder why men treated women from other races different than the way they would treat a black woman. I grow up with my grandmother and she was one of those strong black woman who was forced to take care of 8 kids all by herself after her husband died. She would teach us to be independent because she was alone for so long she forgot what it was like to be a woman.<br />I use to describe myself as independent and strong but it obviously worked against me when it came to relationships. In my country there are a lot of Indian women who are so feminine and growing up I was teased for trying to be like them. I always admired these women because in my family there were no feminine women to look up to. Eventually i decided to ignore everyone and started being more feminine. Now men are much nicer to me and men of other races find me attractive. They admire my femininity and they want to protect me and take care of me. My quality of life improved a lot and I finally found a really nice guy who enjoys taking care of me and spoiling me. At work my co-workers are jealous of me because I have a wealthy fiance and they can't even get a date. I try to help them but they won't listen, well, at least not yet. But overall, I'm a much happier person.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com